The right way to boost your CONFIDENCE – 10 simple steps 😊
Hello friends, Welcome and I’m glad you are back to read my blog.
Tony Robbins says "We can change our lives. We can do, have, and be exactly what we wish" isn't it a profound statement friends?
BTW have you ever felt that one day you jumped out of bed with the right mindset and great energy and your entire day went really well? Then how about the opposite? if you have started your day getting gloomy or furious, stressed, or maybe irritated...how would your day look like? Yes, friends, it’s all in your mind and what you feed your mind is the direct result of your feelings and that would be your outcome.
Why am I saying all this today? well, I have realized that our mood and our feelings have a direct influence on our confidence which in turn impact our purpose or goal.
So, friends, Tony Robbins says Being confident is nothing more than a belief in yourself. It’s the feeling of certainty that you can accomplish whatever you set your mind to. Confidence comes from within, and you can find ways of being more confident at any time.
So now you may ask me how do I build my confidence?
So I want to share a little secret with all of you on this new year that you need to consistently feed your mind with a positive attitude with love and care. The magic will spell all around & nothing stops you and you will win the day with a purpose of fulfillment, enthusiasm, and gain confidence.
The first and foremost important thing is to Get Fired Up! with energy & excitement as confidence plays a vital role in all parts of your life be it personal, professional & relationship.
I’m going to share some insight of each letter of this word CONFIDENCE.
To begin with:
C for Content – your content is the key and base to build your confidence which has to be crisp and clear in your mind and that could be your objective, purpose or a goal to build confidence which is a stepping stone for your success.
O for Organize – how well you are organized & able to take charge of your content
N for Notes – Are you making your notes on the content so you can reflect your content on a need basis.
F for Friendly – How friendly are you in your approach as it's all about yourself, your work, and your relationship and if you want to build confidence then you need to be friendly.
I for Impeccable – You need to take advantage to impress yourself by being flawless to move with confidence
D for Dedication – It’s a feeling of having single minded loyalty or integrity to what you do & you must be diligently be dedicated to achieving your purpose
E for Empathy – It’s a sincere you-attitude and being considerate is positive and reflects your respectfulness for everything and everyone around you.
N for Newness – You need to have curiosity and interest in whatever you do to create originality and that sparks a high level of intelligence when you bring newness to your work and your life
C for Conviction – stems from belief in your Self and you build power and drive because there is a clear objective set out & you know what you want to achieve and where you are going.
E for Enthusiasm – You need to have a strong feeling of active interest in something that you like or enjoy as It adds vitality to what you say. It is the feeling you have when you believe that you can handle a situation successfully.
To recap, Present yourself having your Content right, followed with being Organized, making Notes every time, having that Friendly personality, Impeccable spirit, Dedication, Empathy, Newness, Conviction & Enthusiasm is a must to achieve your goals and be truly happy by boosting your confidence.
There are many books available in the market to boost your CONFIDENCE and what I liked was a book titled `How to transform your life' by Geshe Kelsang Gyatso which is on modern Buddhism and there is an extract of this book free at the website www.kadampa.org which is also giving insight about Authentic Self Confidence' – it’s a must-read if you are game to practice confidence in your life.
Well, I’m not saying learning how to be confident will solve all your problems. Everyone has ups & downs and there would be moments that will upset you. Being confident also doesn’t always mean you’re completely sure of yourself and that has happened to me too.
Again connecting to what Tony Robbin says “Creating confidence is not about knowing it all; it’s about trusting that no matter what happens in a particular situation, you’ll be able to handle it and learn from the outcome and the key to self-confidence is preparation. So get ready to prepare yourself as you jump in this new year with all your resolutions, all your dreams, go and achieve it being confident :-)
Wrapping up – This year 2021 has just begun and certainly, this year will be a milestone for love health wealth joy relationship prosperity so give wings to your dreams next 365 days of awesomeness by boosting your confidence in the right way.
As always, I look forward to your action, do let me know how you applied this piece of learning to up your life and would be happy to see your response & feedback in the comment box below.
Let’s end 2020 with a gratitude and welcome 2021 with great hopes in building confidence 😉 Wishing you and your family a very happy, blessed & successful new year 2021, thank you.